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YOU can have your Cake AND Eat it too!


Eating your Cake too was born out of a lightbulb moment when I finally realised how much more you could have in your life if you just believed you could. When you sit down and ask yourself the right questions, you realise that no one ever told you that you couldn’t do anything (and if they did, they shouldn’t be in your life!), or that you don’t belong in a certain role, team, or environment. We do this to ourselves. Yes, there are haters out there. And cynics, sceptics and negativity breeders, but often the reasons we don’t do what we want, is more ourselves than it is these people.  

Too often I see people fall into this same trap – this same cycle of allowing yourself to get in your own way. Allowing yourself to not give yourself a break and letting these feelings impact your ability to be your full self and live a full life in every aspect of the word. Career. Relationships. Adventure. Travel. Wellbeing. Family. Friends. Spontaneity.

Has anyone ever said any of the below to you? How did it make you feel? 

“You can’t travel AND have a career”
“You can’t buy a house AND travel” 
“You can’t have children AND have a successful career”  
“You can’t run a successful business if you want to have a family”.

Basically, you can’t have your cake and eat it too! Well, guess what… I call Bu**shit on that and I am here to help you realise that too! The above comments are restrictive, they are disempowering and quite honesty just really fu**ing unhelpful. The truth is, you can have it all, if you are prepared to work for it, work damn hard for it, and work on yourself to get it. 

Guess What….You CAN have your Cake and Eat it too.


My mission is to help women get out of their own way and believe that they can have their cake and eat it too.  If you want to learn the tips and tricks on how to do this, and an honest, refreshing insight to the path that I followed to get there, then keep reading! If you want more information on how I can help you get the f*ck out of your own way with this methodology, then let’s connect!


Have you ever said to yourself, “I could never wear those jeans because I’m not that skinny”,. 🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ Or, perhaps, “I could never do that job because I’m not as smart as her”. We even compare ourselves to celebrities (HELLO Beyonce!) for looking amazing, and then we almost take pride when the magazines show the photos of them with cellulite because it makes us feel a little better about ourselves. 🙌🏻 If we didn’t compare ourselves to others to start with, we wouldn’t even need to worry about this! Check out my latest blog all about Comparititis what you stand to lose when you invest all of your energy on what others have. 👊🏼💋👯‍♀️ Check it out in the bio above.👆🏼 @eatingyourcaketoo

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You ain't Beyonce! And guess what? You don't have to be! YOU are just as awesome. 👯‍♀️👊🏼 Why do we do this? Compare ourselves to others. Act as if there is only a set amount of awesomeness to go around and if someone else has got “it” then that means there mustn’t be anymore left for us. 🤷🏼‍♀️ This latest post is all about Comparititis, or Imposter Syndrome and what we lose when we are so focused on the things we think others have that we don't. 💃🎊😄✌🏼 Think this might sound like you? 🙋🏼‍♀️ Check out my newest post. Link is below or in the bio. 💋

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I LOVE a good networking session with other motivated and driven women!! Repost from @kateemiley yesterday at @oneroofwomen 👯‍♀️🎉🤓✌🏼@eatingyourcaketoo

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