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YOU can have your Cake AND Eat it too!


Eating your Cake too was born out of a lightbulb moment when I finally realised how much more you could have in your life if you just believed you could. When you sit down and ask yourself the right questions, you realise that no one ever told you that you couldn’t do anything (and if they did, they shouldn’t be in your life!), or that you don’t belong in a certain role, team, or environment. We do this to ourselves. Yes, there are haters out there. And cynics, sceptics and negativity breeders, but often the reasons we don’t do what we want, is more ourselves than it is these people.  

Too often I see people fall into this same trap – this same cycle of allowing yourself to get in your own way. Allowing yourself to not give yourself a break and letting these feelings impact your ability to be your full self and live a full life in every aspect of the word. Career. Relationships. Adventure. Travel. Wellbeing. Family. Friends. Spontaneity.

Has anyone ever said any of the below to you? How did it make you feel? 

“You can’t travel AND have a career”
“You can’t buy a house AND travel” 
“You can’t have children AND have a successful career”  
“You can’t run a successful business if you want to have a family”.

Basically, you can’t have your cake and eat it too! Well, guess what… I call Bu**shit on that and I am here to help you realise that too! The above comments are restrictive, they are disempowering and quite honesty just really fu**ing unhelpful. The truth is, you can have it all, if you are prepared to work for it, work damn hard for it, and work on yourself to get it. 

Guess What….You CAN have your Cake and Eat it too.


My mission is to help women get out of their own way and believe that they can have their cake and eat it too.  If you want to learn the tips and tricks on how to do this, and an honest, refreshing insight to the path that I followed to get there, then keep reading! If you want more information on how I can help you get the f*ck out of your own way with this methodology, then let’s connect!


When was the last time you really put yourself out there? Seriously! 🤷🤷 ⠀ When was the last time you could feel your adrenaline pumping because you were doing something that made you nervous or uncomfortable? It might have been presenting in front of a group of people, putting an idea on the table that you hadn’t shared before, maybe a job interview, or maybe a first date?⠀🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀ If you can't remember, YOU could be in a rut my friend! 👊🏼 ⠀ Find out if this is you, AND if it is, what you can do about it by clicking on the link below 👇 or in the bio above! ☝⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀ #helpyourself #goals #30daychallenge #comfortzone #eatingyourcaketoo

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Think you want to be a manager? GREAT!!! ⠀ ⠀ Are you willing to do this? 🙋🙋⠀ ⠀ "...Sincerely learn more about yourself and other people, and you’re willing to look in the mirror as you learn and make the necessary changes? Leadership is not easy and it’s not always fun. To be a leader, you have to be humble enough to learn from your employees. A leader who thinks they have all the answers will never gain the respect of their team mates – and without that, you really can’t go very far."⠀ ⠀ Want to know more about what you should consider before you take the leap to become a manager?⠀ ⠀ Check out my latest blog all about it - the link is in the bio above 👆 or you can copy to the link below 👇⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #leadership #management #careercoach #crossroads #eatingyourcaketoo⠀ ⠀

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I used to wonder if I would enjoy leading teams. Now I know I love it and I LOVE ❤️❤️ supporting others to grow and develop. ⠀ ⠀ Have you ever wondered if being a manager is for you? Maybe you are one currently because you thought it was the logical next step, but now something doesn't feel quite right? 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀ Consider this: Are you a good listener, 👂🏻 who enjoys taking the time and listening to people to help them problem solve? 🙋🏼‍♀️ When people want to talk to you are you pleased to stop and chat and you don’t see it as an annoyance? There is nothing worse than a manager who tells employees “I don’t have time for this!” when they have questions about the work. 👊🏼 ⠀ If this might be you – stop and reflect if becoming a manager is REALLY what you want. Curious about what other questions to ask yourself about whether being a manager is for you? Check out the link in the bio above ☝️ or copy the link below 👇⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #leadership #manager #career #eatingyourcaketoo

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Just a REMINDER as you get ready to tackle a new week.... You CAN have the cake AND eat it too! 💃😇😊⠀ ⠀ Life doesn't have to be a trade off. Remember that. ⠀ ⠀ Have a fabulous week peeps full of love, laughter and lots of goal smashing! 👊 BOOOOOOOM!!!⠀ ⠀ #eatingyourcaketoo #youcan #selfdiscovery #goalsetting

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We are in for a fabulous weekend my Melbourne based tribe!! ☀️☀️☀️⠀ ⠀ I hope you get to be out in the sunshine enjoying it with your loved ones! 😍⠀ ⠀ Balance is important in life. Although there are times we need to tilt one way more than others (e.g sometimes work, or family need more of our attention), it is important we regularly reassess where our energies are being invested and ensure it is where we want them to be. ⠀ ⠀ Keep an eye out for my upcoming blog post which talks all about the Balance Wheel and the important part it plays in your life. 😇⠀ ⠀ Happy Weekend xxx ⠀ ⠀ #eatingyourcaketoo #onelife #livingafulllife #balancewheel

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OK..... I'm ready to be back here in Positano right about now!!! Anyone else want to join? 🚣‍♀️🍾☀️🍻😍🌎⠀ ⠀ Planning regular travel is something that is SO important to me as it keeps me motivated and excited - Without doubt, I have the travel bug and probably always will. #notevenmad⠀ ⠀ Anyone have any tips for my next destination???? ⠀ ⠀ #eatingyourcaketoo #travel #foodforthesoul #sisterhood

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