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YOU can have your Cake AND Eat it too!


Eating your Cake too was born out of a lightbulb moment when I finally realised how much more you could have in your life if you just believed you could. When you sit down and ask yourself the right questions, you realise that no one ever told you that you couldn’t do anything (and if they did, they shouldn’t be in your life!), or that you don’t belong in a certain role, team, or environment. We do this to ourselves. Yes, there are haters out there. And cynics, sceptics and negativity breeders, but often the reasons we don’t do what we want, is more ourselves than it is these people.  

Too often I see people fall into this same trap – this same cycle of allowing yourself to get in your own way. Allowing yourself to not give yourself a break and letting these feelings impact your ability to be your full self and live a full life in every aspect of the word. Career. Relationships. Adventure. Travel. Wellbeing. Family. Friends. Spontaneity.

Has anyone ever said any of the below to you? How did it make you feel? 

“You can’t travel AND have a career”
“You can’t buy a house AND travel” 
“You can’t have children AND have a successful career”  
“You can’t run a successful business if you want to have a family”.

Basically, you can’t have your cake and eat it too! Well, guess what… I call Bu**shit on that and I am here to help you realise that too! The above comments are restrictive, they are disempowering and quite honesty just really fu**ing unhelpful. The truth is, you can have it all, if you are prepared to work for it, work damn hard for it, and work on yourself to get it. 

Guess What….You CAN have your Cake and Eat it too.


My mission is to help women get out of their own way and believe that they can have their cake and eat it too.  If you want to learn the tips and tricks on how to do this, and an honest, refreshing insight to the path that I followed to get there, then keep reading! If you want more information on how I can help you get the f*ck out of your own way with this methodology, then let’s connect!


S A T U R D A Y * A D V E N T U R E * P L A N N I N G! ⠀💃☀️🏝🐠 ⠀ You guys already know this, but one of my favourite places to be is in the water, on the water, or as near to the water as I can be! It is my happy place. ⠀☀️🏝 🚤 🐢 ⠀ This pic was one of my favs from a holiday last year with all my girlfriends celebrating our 30th birthdays! 🎉🎊🎈Bring on the Summer sunshine again and the long days, beautiful sunsets and swimming!! 🐠☀️ @eatingyourcaketoo

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This quote continues to be true! 🙌🏻💃💞 I’ve just had the most A M A Z I N G 4 days of training and transformation learning a fabulous new coaching tool... it was intense, uncomfortable and definitely pushed me to dig deep and accept things I probably haven’t wanted to, but the learnings I’ve walked away with have been SO worth it... 📚👊🏼😍 What have YOU done lately that’s got you out of your comfort zone? 😬🙏🏼 #sisterhood #comfortzone #pushtheboundaries @eatingyourcaketoo

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You’ve done it. Everything you have worked so hard for has been recognised. 👊🏼👊🏼 The late nights, the extra work, its been noticed and you have been promoted into a leadership role. Amazing! 💃💃 You get to lead a team. You get to set the tone for your team and drive the teams objectives forward. 🙌🏻 It will be fun they said. It will be great they said. YOU will be great, they said. 👩🏼‍🎓👩🏽‍⚕️👩‍💼 ⠀ Then reality hits. You’ve never managed people before. 😬 Infact, you are now managing people who last week were your colleagues. You used to whinge together over lunch about your manager – now you are that person. Sh*t. 🤭 ⠀ Ever felt like this? Check out this fortnights blog about staying confident when you feel out of your depth in a new leadership role! Link is below of in the bio.⠀ ⠀

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It is messages like this that remind me why I do what I do and how much of a positive impact it can have.... SO PROUD OF YOU @meako87 - nailing it! 💃👊🏼😘👏🏻 @eatingyourcaketoo #sisterhood #confidenceiskey #coach

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S E L F * S A T U R D A Y * How frikin' delightful is this day spa setup? 😍😍 This was one of my favourite day spa experiences EVER on Bintan Island, Indonesia. ☀️💞🏝 Although this weekend I don't quite think I'll get this same luxurious experience, wellness is always a big part of the weekend ritual! ⠀ ⠀ Whether it is just taking time out for a walk along the beach, reading a good book, a nice long brunch with a friend breakfast in bed, or even getting a massage (whhhhhhoooop!) make sure you do something just for you! #selfcare @eatingyourcaketoo

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This was the moment I chose to be courageous. This was the time that I decided "F*ck it! - I am going to do this. I am going to start @eatingyourcaketoo and share my journal 📓 ✍🏼 with others who have experienced or are currently experiencing the same feelings as me". 👊🏼👊🏼 ⠀ Sometimes it is the most random of times and in the most random of places that the feeling of courage steps in and propels you forward. ⠀🙌🏻💃 ⠀ Do you remember your critical moment where you moved forward with something with courage instead of hiding behind fear? 🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ Tell me! I'd love to hear from you! @eatingyourcaketoo And don’t forget to check out my latest blog post - link below and in the bio! ⠀

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