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YOU can have your Cake AND Eat it too!


Eating your Cake too was born out of a lightbulb moment when I finally realised how much more you could have in your life if you just believed you could. When you sit down and ask yourself the right questions, you realise that no one ever told you that you couldn’t do anything (and if they did, they shouldn’t be in your life!), or that you don’t belong in a certain role, team, or environment. We do this to ourselves. Yes, there are haters out there. And cynics, sceptics and negativity breeders, but often the reasons we don’t do what we want, is more ourselves than it is these people.  

Too often I see people fall into this same trap – this same cycle of allowing yourself to get in your own way. Allowing yourself to not give yourself a break and letting these feelings impact your ability to be your full self and live a full life in every aspect of the word. Career. Relationships. Adventure. Travel. Wellbeing. Family. Friends. Spontaneity.

Has anyone ever said any of the below to you? How did it make you feel? 

“You can’t travel AND have a career”
“You can’t buy a house AND travel” 
“You can’t have children AND have a successful career”  
“You can’t run a successful business if you want to have a family”.

Basically, you can’t have your cake and eat it too! Well, guess what… I call Bu**shit on that and I am here to help you realise that too! The above comments are restrictive, they are disempowering and quite honesty just really fu**ing unhelpful. The truth is, you can have it all, if you are prepared to work for it, work damn hard for it, and work on yourself to get it. 

Guess What….You CAN have your Cake and Eat it too.


My mission is to help women get out of their own way and believe that they can have their cake and eat it too.  If you want to learn the tips and tricks on how to do this, and an honest, refreshing insight to the path that I followed to get there, then keep reading! If you want more information on how I can help you get the f*ck out of your own way with this methodology, then let’s connect!


Do you recall the last time you applied for a new role? 🙋🏼‍♀️ You get a call from the recruiter and you are pumped that you have gotten through the first hoop. They are talking to you about the role and it all sounds flippin’ fantastic! 💃Then, it feels like out of nowhere they ask you for your salary expectations. You panic. You sweat. You stutter. ⠀🤭 ⠀ If you are lucky you say your expectations with a molecule of confidence, but mostly just fumble through the sentence. You may even then put something on the end of the sentence like “Oh, but it’s really just about finding the right role. The money isn’t important to me!”. Eeeeeeeek. Sister, you are not alone.⠀👋🏼 ⠀ Check out my latest blog post which gives you 5 steps on how to state your worth around salary with confidence. Check it out here or in the bio. ⠀ ⠀ @eatingyourcaketoo

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Super pumped 🎉 and excited to have my article published by Arianna Huffingtons @thrive Global community site. 💃 If you haven’t checked out the site before ladies, get on board! There are heaps of articles, podcasts, interviews etc and you can check out my article all about Imposter Syndrome there! Here is the link 👉🏻 @eatingyourcaketoo

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