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YOU can have your Cake AND Eat it too!


Eating your Cake too was born out of a lightbulb moment when I finally realised how much more you could have in your life if you just believed you could. When you sit down and ask yourself the right questions, you realise that no one ever told you that you couldn’t do anything (and if they did, they shouldn’t be in your life!), or that you don’t belong in a certain role, team, or environment. We do this to ourselves. Yes, there are haters out there. And cynics, sceptics and negativity breeders, but often the reasons we don’t do what we want, is more ourselves than it is these people.  

Too often I see people fall into this same trap – this same cycle of allowing yourself to get in your own way. Allowing yourself to not give yourself a break and letting these feelings impact your ability to be your full self and live a full life in every aspect of the word. Career. Relationships. Adventure. Travel. Wellbeing. Family. Friends. Spontaneity.

Has anyone ever said any of the below to you? How did it make you feel? 

“You can’t travel AND have a career”
“You can’t buy a house AND travel” 
“You can’t have children AND have a successful career”  
“You can’t run a successful business if you want to have a family”.

Basically, you can’t have your cake and eat it too! Well, guess what… I call Bu**shit on that and I am here to help you realise that too! The above comments are restrictive, they are disempowering and quite honesty just really fu**ing unhelpful. The truth is, you can have it all, if you are prepared to work for it, work damn hard for it, and work on yourself to get it. 

Guess What….You CAN have your Cake and Eat it too.


My mission is to help women get out of their own way and believe that they can have their cake and eat it too.  If you want to learn the tips and tricks on how to do this, and an honest, refreshing insight to the path that I followed to get there, then keep reading! If you want more information on how I can help you get the f*ck out of your own way with this methodology, then let’s connect!


What is your definition of "self care"? ⁣🤷🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ ⁣⠀ Mine still is about ensuring I take time out for myself to breathe, relax and reflect. However, it is also needs to be about making sure I am respecting myself and my health at its very core. 🙌🏻🙌🏻 ⁣⠀ What do I mean by this? ⁣⠀ I mean ensuring that you are practising the true definition of self care by caring for yourself! 👊🏼 Be sure to book and ATTEND your annual health check ups, skin checks and be attentive to your body - don't just take it for granted. You make time to service your car, so make time to service your body! 🙏🏼🙏🏼⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ Check out my latest blog post below or in the bio and you'll understand why I am talking about this! ⁣⠀ ⁣⠀⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ #eatingyourcaketoo #selfcare #health #yourhealth #lookafteryourself ⁣⠀ ⁣⠀

What is your de...

Dreaming of weekends at beautiful wineries.... ❤️☀️🥂 🙏 🍷⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ #eatingyourcaketoo #balancewheel #greenery #melbourne #almostthere #breathe

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I had a bit of a forced realisation recently and F*CK was my first thought.... ⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ “I’VE BEEN DOING SELF-CARE ALL WRONG AT ITS VERY CORE!!!!” ⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ 🙏 At its very basic level, self-care is about, just that – caring for ourselves. Yet, after a pretty scary wake-up call recently I have realised that NO amount of smoothies, meditation or walks along the beach, will save me from not taking care of myself at the very base level. 🙏⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ This fornights blog is about how I have reassessed what it really means to care for self. Check out the link in the bio, or below. ⁣⠀ ⁣⠀⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ #eatingyourcaketoo #honest #vulnerable #selfcare #truthbomb

I had a bit of ...

🖼️A photo of a photo. 🖼️ ⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ This photo was just hanging on the wall in my hotel room recently. Usually I wouldn't even notice it, but for some reason when I decided to stop, breathe and take a moment, I noticed it. ⁣⠀🙏🏼🙌🏻 ⁣⠀ Although all this is is a photo of another photo - to me it is a reminder of what you miss out on when you move through life too quickly and when you don't stop to smell the roses. ⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ Here's to a week full of remembering what the most important things in life are! 🙏🌹❤️⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ #onelife #eatingyourcaketoo #slowdown #balancewheel

🖼️A photo of a ...

HUMP DAY HAPPINESS!!! 😘🙏🏼☀️ ⠀ Whats your happy place?? I know I have said before that mine is pretty much anything on, near or around water!! And you can see why, right? ⠀ ⠀ This was a photo I took in Sydney a few weeks back on an amazing walk around the bay and it just makes me instantly happy! ⠀ ⠀ Having a happy place is also good for the soul - it can give you a little refuge when things might be getting you down, or when you need to get away. ⠀ ⠀ P.s Have you checked out my blog yet? Don't miss it - this one is all about dealing with negativity or when you feel like people are bringing you down. Check the link in the bio - xxx ⠀ ⠀ #eatingyourcaketoo #happyplace #positivity #resilience


MONDAY MORNING LOLS! 🤣🤣⠀ ⠀ Who knew it was that simple to get skinny??? LOL!! ⠀ ⠀ Hope you've had a wonderful weekend peeps and are going into a new week feeling fab!! ⠀ ⠀ #eatingyourcaketoo #balancewheel #onelife #positivity