Eating your Cake Too was born out of a lightbulb moment when I finally realised how much more you could have in your life if you just believed you could. When you sit down and ask yourself the right questions, you realise that no one ever told you that you couldn’t do anything (and if they did, they shouldn’t be in your life!), or that you don’t belong in a certain role, team, or environment. We do this to ourselves. Yes, there are haters out there. And cynics, sceptics and those pesky negativity breeders, but often the reasons we don’t do what we want, is more ourselves than it is these people.
Too often I see people fall into this same trap – this same cycle of allowing yourself to get in your own way. Allowing yourself to not give yourself a break and letting these feelings impact your ability to be your full self and live a full life in every aspect of the word. Career. Relationships. Adventure. Travel. Wellbeing. Family. Friends. Spontaneity. Has anyone ever said any of the below to you? How did it make you feel? For me, quite frankly it makes my blood boil…!
“You can’t travel AND have a career” “You can’t buy a house AND travel” ” You can’t have children AND have a successful career” “You can’t run a successful business if you want to have a family”.
Basically, you can’t have your cake and eat it too! Well, guess what… I call Bu**shit on that and I am here to help you realise that too! I have experienced this feeling first hand of being so outside your comfort zone and that feeling of being so outside of your depth that you let it affect the other areas of your life – your relationships, goals, health, attitude, your mental wellbeing. The above comments are restrictive, they are disempowering and quite honesty just really fu**ing unhelpful. The truth is, you can have it all, if you are prepared to work for it, work darn hard for it, and work on yourself to get it.
You CAN have your Cake and Eat it Too.
My mission is to help people get out of their own way and to help them believe and achieve that they can have their Cake and Eat it too. If you want to learn the tips and tricks on how to do this, and an honest, refreshing insight to the path that I followed to get there, then keep reading! If you want more information on what excites me about Eating your Cake Too and how I plan to help others get the f*ck out of thier own ways with this methodology, then let’s connect! email@example.com. My blog will talk about all different kinds of things from setting yourself up for success when planning your goals, confidence in articulating your ideas, interview techniques, selling yourself etc… What do these things have in common? They are related to getting out of your own bloody way to help you live the full life that you should.